Allowing is you being non-resistant.
It means not judging something.
Saying that this thing/person is good therefore I want it,
but this thing/person is bad so stay the hell away from me!
Yes, that is judgement.
It’s like going to the buffet table and seeing what you want and what you don’t want, then you spend your time trying to call in the Managers to clear away all the things that you don/t want so that you can enjoy your plate filled with all of what you actually wanted.
But wait a minute, where did you put your focus?
According to the law of attraction, you attract what is in your dominant vibration. This leads you to getting more what you resist, yes? Because your energy is greater in the resistance of it, and therefore the Universe gives you more of that.
We then ask, why isn’t this working for me? It is, it’s all always working, and doesn’t need you to do anything to set it into motion. Just like your heart. You are not needed to make it work. You – in your human self may actually be guilty of getting in the way and make it work haphazardly or you may even make it stop altogether.
Ok, I admit extreme examples made too simplistic. But, yes ultimately that’s how the law works. Trust the law to do it’s part. You take care of where you put your attention towards. What are you focusing on?
And how about accommodating, how does that trip you up?
Well, for starters, you let everyone have their life experiences while you forget to declare your desires, so that you can also have what you what, while they have what they want. Why do you have to wait at the side-lines until they are satisfied/happy and retires for the day, then you venture out to have your “me” time?
Can you see how this can be a recipe for disaster? It means you NEVER have time to do what you REALLY want. It means that it becomes a perpetual cycle where you crave the supportive container that you so deeply desire. And there is a ton of other unsaid feelings and unmet needs that can stem out of this.
Trust me, I know. I have been there. And now that I know better, I’m sharing this with you so that you too can be aware of your choices and choose differently. Make choices that are more in alignment with who you truly are.
What do I really want?
What do I really want to experience in this moment?
It always comes back to this.
Your desires influence your reality – either by having it or having the opposite of it (when you aren’t allowing it in).
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